Cerita Negeri Bahagia #1

Assalamualaikum wr.wb.

Salam kasih dari Negeri Bahagia ❤

Alhamdulillah, tiba juga kesempatan untuk bersua lagi di blog ini. Kali ini, senang sekali karna ada cerita dari negeri bahagia #1 yang telah terlaksana pada bulan Ramadhan dan Lebaran 1427H kemarin. Formalnya, ini laporan kegiatan kami. Hehehe

Yuuuk intip 😉

Laporan Kegiatan _ PROJECT 1 Negeri Bahagia

Semoga kami bisa amanah dan konsisten dalam mempertanggungjawabkan ini semua. Aamiiin.

Kritik dan saran yang membangun sangat kami harapkan. Terima kasih untuk segalanya 🙂

Wassalamualaikum wr.wb.

Salam bahagia,
Dwi Rahmah Hidayati

BLAST-BEST

Data from Central Bureau Statistics of Indonesia recorded that at 2011, 90 million children are currently 0-19 years old. So, at 2045 they are 34-53 years old. The productive age population of Indonesia reaches its peak. Indonesia will be referred to as “Indonesia Emas 2045”. The children will become our leader.

In fact, nowadays Indonesian children’s condition is very worrying. Semai 2045 movement says that they are BLAST. BLAST means Bored, Lonely, Affraid, Angry, and Tired. Yayasan Kita Buah Hati (YKBH) at 2014 recorded that, 93 of 100 student in elementary school have accessed pornography, 135 Indonesian children became victims of violence each month, sexual abuse occured in 19 provinces, Incest case occured in 23 provinces.

Gold Generation, Indonesia Emas 2045 that would serve proper leader for our country. How it could be? The children are BLAST, dear.

BLAST, I felt it too when I was in elementary school age. I was such a smart student. I was the first rank in the first grade until six grade, constantly. I selected to be classmate leader in my elementary and madrasah. I asked to represent the school in mathematic, science, and social competitions. I was such a good santri in my madrasah, too. Sadly, my peers in madrasah (my village) bullied me physical and mental. They hit me, attack my spine with her leg when I rejected to cheating in the exam, they hide my cycle, and others. They also tease me that “I am smart because of DUKUN”.

Then, I tend to enjoyed myself. I created my own activities such as: made a craft, wrote, watched the sky, prayed, and sometimes cried. That’s my actions for got my own happiness at that time.

I won’t children lonely facing this cruel and challanging conditions. They really need soulmate like I absolutely needed partner at that time (also, now). Growing happiness habits to the children is really urgent movement. We need to accompany the children take actions to enjoy “what the way they are”, have fun activities, how to loving and be loved, how to caring and sharing, collaboration, and others. Then, the children could be BEST. BEST means Behave, Emphatic, Smart, and Tough.

BLAST TO BE BEST
BLAST TO BE BEST

“Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from our own actions” that’s Dalai Lama said. Ladies and gantleman, Let’s action, action, and action! Change BLAST to be BEST, right now! Because “the children” that I told to you are us and our next generation.

With love,
Dwi Rahmah Hidayati

Negeri Bahagia

Acara di Negeri Bahagia

Selamat datang di negeri bahagia 🙂

Sebuah “diksi” dari perjalanan panjang yang cukup melelahkan. Melewati bukit kesedihan dan kebahagiaan, menyusuri sungai keraguan dan keyakinan, mendaki gunung harapan dan kekecewaan. Dua puluh tiga tahun, dan akhirnya aku semakin dekat kepadanya. Petualangan ke Negeri Bahagia akan dimulai dari sebuah sudut teras rumah, di desa kecil bernama Kerjen, kecamatan Srengat, kabupaten Blitar. InsyaAllah..

Dengan penuh harapan dan suka cita, kuajak kalian anak-anakku, teman, dan keluargaku.. untuk ikut mengukir senyum, bahagia, dan makna di Negeri Bahagia kita (masing-masing). Terima dan sambutlah acara pertama kami yang bertema, “Menumbuhkan Kebiasaan Anak Bahagia”.

Bentuk Kegiatan ini ada 2 yaitu:

  1. Ngabuburit ke Negeri Bahagia 
    “Menumbuhkan 7 Kebiasaan Anak Bahagia di Bulan Ramadhan” melalui dongeng, menggambar, dan mewarna.
    Waktu: 15.30 – 17.00 WIB
    Juni 2017 (tanggal 11, 12, 16, 17, 18, 19, dan 23)
    Tempat: Teras Rumah Bapak Sadjijat RT 01 RW 01 Kecamatan Srengat
    Kabupaten Blitar, Jawa Timur, Indonesia
    Poster Ngabuburit ke Negeri Bahagia 2017 Bag 1
  2. Kemenangan di Negeri Bahagia 
    Sebuah ajang gelar karya tentang “Kebiasaan Anak Bahagia”
    Waktu: 25-30 Juni 2017
    Tempat: Teras Rumah Bapak Sadjijat RT 01 RW 01 Kecamatan Srengat
    Kabupaten Blitar, Jawa Timur, Indonesia
    Kemenangan di Negeri Bahagia

Mohon doa restu dan partisipasinya. Semoga segala sesuatu yang sedang kami usahakan mampu memberi manfaat dan “membahagiakan” sekitar. Aamiiin {()}

Salam Bahagia,
Dwi Rahmah Hidayati

HISTORY FOR CHILDREN

Children are born into history. They also want to have a place in the history. They addressed the questions about everything in this world to us as their parents or teachers. So, we are in the best position to help prepare our children to achieve the lifelong task of finding their place in history by helping them learn what shaped the world into which they were born.

Teaching History is one of excellent way to accompany the children’s curiosity and critical thinking skills about this world. World history and local history are the materials learning for schoolchildren. Some people believe that learn about local history is more important than world history. In my opinion, world history is important as local history. Eventhough, there are pros and cons about that.
Sahabat Senyum - Telling story and history
Local history in our country it means the materials learning about history of Indonesia. Not only about the palaces in Indonesia, the kings in its periode, the wars and the heroes when our country were colonized by Netherlands and Japan, but also about the children’s family history. Local history learning can strengthening the roots of children’s understanding of their identity from nearest surroundings. That is will improve the children’s love and their contributions to save the local heritage in Indonesia.

In spite of that, world history really needed to be learned by schoolchildren because its equip them with the knowledge and understanding of the past for coping and planning for the future world. Above all, today is interconnecting era that the children will facing international collaborations in their life. The materials of world history such as the children’s countries position in the world, new countries and introduce them to different places and times. Learn about that use a globe or map and encyclopedia. Also, introduce the children about the famous people with each movements and the riches culture-diversity in many countries in the world. The parents and teachers need to emphasize the value about “Unity in Diversity” when learned about world history. Stone (1986) said that children are more open to the diversity in the early elementary years than in later years. They are also more likely to express interest in studying and visiting foreign countries in early years. That is why the world history need to be learned by the schoolchildren.

I strongly conclude that the world history is important as much as local history. In the primary ages of children, they learn both of them for foundation their thinking and actuating ways for the universally. So, the children would “Think globally, Act locally”.

BAD CHILDREN’S BEHAVIOUR IN SCHOOL

 

Passion for Education - Learn with pleasure“Children see, children do”. That is popular statement from Bandura’s Social Cognitive Learning Theory. It means that what the children do are depend on what they see. If they see the good examples, they will do the good behavior. Unless, the examples are bad, so do the children.

Frequently, the children easly follow the bad behavior from their schools friends. The parents not become their idols. Many cases showed that the bad students behavior came from disharmony families. The conditions such us divorced, bussy parents, or unrespectfull parents to their children. That types of parents usually have lack attention and support to the schools teacher and programs.

The obvious solution is the strong engagement between the parents and all school members. The parents should active support their children and keep the good relation with the school members. The schools members must work closely with the parents, for example with facilitate the parents with parenting workshop program every month.

In conclusion, one of the causes of bad children behavior is lack of children figure from the parents then makes the children follow the bad behavior from the bad friends. The parents need pay more attention to the children and collaborate with the school members.

 
Written by: Dwi Rahmah Hidayati
March, 2017

EDUCATION IN THE DEVELOPING COUNTRIES

Passion for Education - See Rainbow with our own walk
Source: My Research of Compulsory Education (2014) 

Education is the essential of the human rights in every countries whatever its developing or developed countries. The unfinnish education problem in Indonesia until now is unequity and unequality of education, particularly in the remote areas. Many children can not access their basic skills education because of the insufficient schools. There is one of the example places that doesn’t has the junior high school, Ranu Pane village, distric of Lumajang. Many children decide to work in early ages as the farmers to help their parents. It is good that children learn to work and help their parents. But, they ought to keep learning too, even they could not access formal education. Learn about their local wisdom, join with youth local oragnization, and be a part of local movement is a suitable choice.

Furthermore, the government with the Non Government Organizations (NGOs) should take some strategies to solve the problems, such as develop alternative education (community based education), invest in schools and technology, supply the funds to build schools and pay for the teachers. The teachers welfare must become one of budgets priority plan of the government. If the teachers needs are guaranteed, they will focus on their main jobs and involve totally. Then, their educational service performances will be better for the children. So, there are the unequity and unequality problems in the developing countries that need the collaborative programs from the government, NGOs, local communities, and stakeholders.

 

Written by: Dwi Rahmah Hidayati
March, 2017

TECHNOLOGY IN EDUCATION

education-technology
Source: https://www.championtutor.com

We can not deny the rapid technology innovations in this recent years. Education is one of the most adopt fields that take the benefits from the developed technology. The teachers can be an example of positive user of technology. They added significance the function of computers technology to create much more interest teaching aids that the students become more pay attentions to their explanations. The teachers could held the distance learning, too. They still possible to connect and accompany their students to study in everywhere and everytime through the internet connected computers. On the other hand, the teachers would have too much on computers that not good for their health. Their eyes could be poignant or the problem with their spines. Another drawback is the technology could not substitute for a real teacher. Exactly, the teacher is such an inspirator that do her or his job involve the heart. Its never replaced by the technology as the machine. I conclude that technology could greatly facilitate the teachers in teaching and learning. The demerits are the health problems and the restrictiveness of technology to replace the role of teachers. So, the stakeholders of education should use the technology critically in the positive ways.

Written by: Dwi Rahmah Hidayati
March, 2017

Person Behind Education System in Finland

OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERAIn this 21st Century of Education era, Finland has gained a reputation for having one of the best education systems in the world. One of the most influence person behind a successful of education system in Finland is Pasi Sahlberg. He has blond hair orderly. His face is bright with blond eyebrow, medium eyes, blue eyeballs, sharp nose that represent his strong personality. Talking about Pasi Sahlberg, he is a Finnish educator and author. He has worked as a schoolteacher, teacher educator, researcher, and policy advisor in Finland and examined education systems around the world. His expertise includes school improvement, international education issues, classroom teaching and learning, teacher education, and school leadership. Pasi has given more than 400 keynote speeches and published over 100 articles, chapters and books on education. His book “Finnish Lesson 2.0: What Can We Learn From Educational Change in Finland?” won the 2013 Grawemeyer Award and he received the 2012 Education Award in Finland, the 2014 Robert Owen Award in Scotland, and the 2016 Lego Award in Denmark. He is known as an international “school improvement activist” because his direct links to practitioners and their communities. I admire him because he is an ideal figure of education researcher and practitioner.

 

Written by Dwi Rahmah Hidayati
March, 2017

Mendampingi Anak di Era Digital

internet-sehat-untuk-anakApakah gadget dan game online sudah menjadi teman idola anak saat ini? Bahkan anak-anak sudah sangat lihai memainkannya? Padahal, di rumah bunda tidak memberikan akses bagi anak untuk bermain game online. Tidak pernah melihat anak memainkannya.

Rupanya mereka tahu game online justru di sekolah, dari teman-temannya loh bunda. Tantangan para orangtua di era digital ini rupanya semakin berat. Eits, tenang bunda dan cabun. Ada tantangan, ada pula peluang.

Anak-anak pada dasarnya menyukai permainan dan mencoba hal-hal baru. Mereka selalu ingin update dan tidak ketinggalan dari teman-temannya. Sehingga, sesungguhnya “tehnologi” berpikir dan merespon anak akan hal baru juga pesat. Kemajuan tehnologi, khususnya internet memudahkan mereka mengakses hal-hal baru tersebut.

Kita perlu hadir disamping anak untuk menjadi temannya dalam “mendayagunakan” internet. Melarang anak untuk tidak mengakses sama sekali seringkali justru menjadi titik pemberontakan dari anak. Mereka akan lebih memilih “main belakang” alias diam-diam agar tidak dimarahi orangtuanya. Memberikan “ruang gerak” yang cukup bagi anak untuk mengakses tehnologi, khususnya internet adalah tanggungjawab. Berikut beberapa tips mendampingi anak menggunakan internet secara sehat.

  1. Menentukan tujuan penggunaan internet bersama anak.internet-sehat-untuk-anak-sd
  2. Menemani anak dalam mengakses informasi dari internet.
  3. Melakukan diskusi bersama anak terkait informasi yang diperoleh dari internet.
  4. Menjadi contoh bagaimana belajar menggunakan internet.
  5. Menyepakati durasi menggunakan internet. Jika anak “terlanjur” menjadi penggemar game online, maka anak diijinkan bermain game online ketika tugasnya sudah dia selesaikan. Poin pentingnya adalah, batasi secara bertahap durasi bermain game online, misalnya yang ia minta 15 menit, menjadi 10 atau 6 menit saja.
  6. Tegas dalam membuat kesepakatan.
  7. Rayakan keberhasilan anak ketika dapat menggunakan internet secara sehat.

Oke, bunda dan cabun… see on the next post yaah.

Malang, 18 November 2016

EMOSI, BEREKSPRESI

Emosi merupakan sesuatu yang setiap hari kita rasakan. Ada berbagai macam emosi. Ada bahagia, marah, sedih, bosan, bangga, kecewa, terkejut, dan sebagainya. Semua orang memilikinya. Ekspresi yang kita tunjukkan saat ini, dipengaruhi oleh emosi yang kita rasakan dan kita ketahui.

Anak-anak, perlu diajak mengenal emosi dan jujur-berani mengekspresikannya. Mengapa? Agar anak terbiasa jujur pada dirinya sendiri, akan apa yang mereka rasakan dan alami. Jika anak mampu mengungkapkan emosinya, kita sebagai orangtua akan mampu menentukan respon yang tepat, sesuai yang dibutuhkan anak. Jika kita mampu melakukannya, anak-anak akan lebih nyaman menceritakan apa yang dialaminya pada orangtuanya. Kita dipercaya anak menjadi temannya. Bukankah itu yang kita harapkan?

Saling memahami emosi satu sama lain, baik orangtua kepada anak dan anak kepada orangtua memiliki manfaat istimewa. Apa saja?

  1. Menumbuhkan empati dan simpati
  2. Menguatkan kelekatan (bonding)
  3. Dapat merespon secara tepat
  4. Anak lebih percaya diri dan berani
  5. Anak mampu menjadi dirinya sendiri
  6. Anak jujur pada diri sendiri dan orang lain

Sedang beberapa kekurangan jika anak tidak mengenal emosi antara lain:

  1. Anak bingung akan apa yang dirasakan
  2. Anak tidak mampu mengungkapkan apa yang dirasakan
  3. Anak menjadi pendiam-pemurung
  4. Anak menjadi penyendiri
  5. Anak tidak jujur akan apa yang dirasakan

Berikut beberapa tips mengenalkan dan mengekspresikan emosi pada anak:

  1. Memutarkan video ekspresi berbagai jenis emosi
    Berikut contoh video yang bisa menjadi media pembelajaran emosi untuk anak:
  2. Mengajak anak menyanyi tentang berbagai jenis emosi
  3. Melakukan challenges merubah ekspresi secara cepat
  4. Membuat video berbagai ekspresi bersama anak. Berikut salah satu karya penyaluran ekspresi oleh anak.

Yuk, berani berekspresi 🙂

Malang, 17 November 2016